We Left the City and Never Ever Looked Back

If you ever dream of a new beginning in the nation, you're not alone. Hear what it resembles from three households who really made the leap.
Who hasn't dreamed of dropping city life and transferring to the country? Possibly you have actually invested weekend vacations browsing the regional realty listings, baffled by how far a dollar can extend: A farmhouse (with acreage!) for what a walkup studio would cost in the city?

In 2012, I made the jump, moving from Seattle to a small summertime town in Maine. I started photographing these individuals and interviewing them about their triumphs and challenges in transitioning to country living. The project took flight right away-- plainly I wasn't the only one thinking about escaping the city.

Don't take it from me. Hear it from these three households who left the city behind for a fresh start.

Photography by Alissa Hessler. You can find out more profiles like these on Urban Exodus and in her book Ditch the City and Go Nation.



Kenzie and Shawn Fields
When a household of New Yorkers found a wacky home in the Berkshires at a third the cost of their city cage, they figured it was fate.
Moved from: New York City, pop. 8.5 million
Kenzie and Shawn Fields were living in what most New york city households would consider a dream scenario-- a three-bedroom coop apartment or condo in a desirable Brooklyn community. It sufficed area for their family of 5, with no worry of a rent walking. To afford living in the city, however, both Kenzie and Shawn needed to work long hours. Shawn, a painter and illustrator, worked as a studio assistant for an established artist and was just able to create his own operate in his off hours.

When Kenzie's moms and dads moved to the Berkshires, an innovative center in the mountains of Massachusetts, the Fields household came for a go to and started dreaming of leaving the city behind. "It felt like an inspired idea," remembers Shawn. "On what I believed was a lark, we looked at a house in a town with an excellent little school," states Shawn.

Moved to: New Marlborough, Mass., pop. 1,509
Shawn and Kenzie took a leap of faith and moved their household to New Marlborough. "Living in a town in the country was a great response for us," says Kenzie. We live across from a hurrying creek, which is soothing.

Instead of continuing to work hard to further the professions of other artists, the couple chose to focus their efforts on building Shawn's fine-art company. Quiting their constant city incomes while taking on the costs of winter heating and caring for an old home hasn't been a cinch, however they can't envision going back to the cramped confines of city living.

Entering their home is like walking into one of Shawn's narrative paintings. On a typical day, their daughter, Honey, might greet you in the yard with a pet bunny, their son Peter might follow you around with his brass trumpet, and their other boy Odie may use to carry out a magic trick. They have gotten crafty-- repurposing wood, windows and thrifted treasures to transform their cottage into a relaxing, wacky wonderland.

The kids have a lot more flexibility to explore now-- they invest hours playing in the creek by their home and offering at the library down the street. And they've all discovered, states Kenzie, that "the chance to care is more present when you run out the frustrating scale of a city. When my mom passed away, people we didn't understand well left entire meals on our patio."

They love the natural setting of their new life, says Kenzie. That's just the start. "Playing charades with our next-door neighbors, heating with wood, the animals, library pie sales, city center conferences. Our friends down the roadway invite people over to sing conventional music every Sunday night, literally loafing the piano after supper."

Richard Blanco
A Cuban-American poet discovered the quiet he needs to compose-- plus a sense of belonging-- in a tiny Maine town.
Moved from: San Antonio, Texas
At President Obama's 2nd inauguration in 2013, Richard Blanco's reading of his poem One Today motivated the nation. What the majority of people don't understand is that, looking back, he's uncertain he would have had the ability to write the poem if he hadn't been restricted to his composing desk, surrounded by pine forests piled high with snow, up on a mountainside in his new home in St Louis, Missouri.

Prior to relocating to Maine, Richard lived most of his life in San Antonio. In 2012, he was working as a civil engineer and writing in his extra time when his partner, Mark, got a task that required the couple to transfer to the small ski town of St Louis, Missouri. Richard was a little concerned at first, he was excited at the prospect of leaving the traffic and noise of city life and having the opportunity to write more.

Being the child of Cuban exiles and an immigrant himself, who had concerned San Antonio as a baby, Richard has actually constantly longed to discover a place where he belongs. A primary style in his writing is what it requires to make a location seem like home. And he now recognizes that living in the country was a natural for him. "I think I've constantly wished to transfer to the country," he says. "I constantly had a destination to it, particularly considering that I went back to Cuba to check out in my teenagers. Most of my family is from backwoods in Cuba, and I felt extremely in your home there."

Transferred to: St Louis, Missouri
Richard and Mark didn't understand how this village would get them, but they have actually been pleasantly shocked. St Louis has actually welcomed "the gay couple from San Antonio," as they were described for a while, with open arms. Richard is a respected member of the neighborhood and-- considering that the inauguration-- a town celebrity.

However it's been an adjustment. "After that honeymoon phase, the very first thing that started to scold on me was needing to drive everywhere," states Richard. And shopping is difficult: "I live in a resort town, so I can get sushi, but I can't get inkjet cartridges or underclothing." To his surprise, he likewise missed going out: "Often you simply wish to dress up and feel incredible-- and there is no place to do that. I've outgrown all my fits living here." He also misses out on the privacy of city life: "There is no such thing as simply a waiter in St Louis. You understand their whole life, and you understand their kids, where they matured ... and they understand whatever about you. It's beautiful, however occasionally Mark and I will want to go out to discuss something over supper and ... the walls have ears."

"After a year of fighting the aspects, I had to make decisions about where to stop landscaping and let nature take over," states Richard. "I got a little carried away and made these mounds of work for myself and ended up not enjoying what I initially came here for.

After moving to the nation, Richard initially continued to work from another location on contract engineering jobs, however the cheaper expense of living in Maine allowed him to shift focus and prioritize his poetry. And given that 2013, he's been able to work practically entirely as a writer, leaving his engineering profession behind. He has actually written two numerous poems and award-winning memoirs. He has actually taught composing workshops all over the world and simply completed his very first fine-press book, Boundaries. A number of weeks prior to he made the journey to DC for the 2013 inauguration, he notoriously practiced his poem to an audience of snowmen in his front backyard.

He offers the location where he lives a great deal of credit for all this. Life in the nation has actually provided him space and time to focus on his writing. And maybe more importantly, it has actually lastly provided him a place that feels like home.

Joe and Ashley Duggers
A surprise business obstacle turned these Silicon Valley business owners into a family of rural ranchers.
Moved from: Sacramento, California
A few years ago, Joe and Ashley Duggers operated and owned 11 services in the Silicon Valley city of Sacramento: a discovering center, a maker space, a floral designer store and a play space for young children, just among others. All this in addition to raising four women under the age of 6. They valued their busy, complete lives but worried that the abundance of Silicon Valley would give their children a skewed viewpoint on the world.

In 2010, they opened a farm-to-table dining establishment called Bumble but had a hard time to source fairly raised meat. This led them to a brand-new prospective endeavor-- running a livestock cattle ranch that could provide meat to their restaurant. They explored the Sharps Gulch Cattle ranch in the grassy field river valley of Fort Jones, California, a brief drive from the Oregon border. From here, it was a six-hour drive down I-5 to Silicon Valley, but without the crazy sticker label price of land better to the Bay Location. The property had two homes, one a historical Victorian in desperate need of repair and one a comfortable two-bedroom cabin. They leapt in and acquired the property in 2013, wishing to one day find a method to relocate to the cattle ranch full-time.

Moved to: Fort Jones, California, pop. 688
"We always had a desire to raise our kids in broad read review open spaces in a more rural neighborhood," states Ashley. "Joe grew up on a farm and hoped we 'd get back to the land at some point. We offered our services and moved up the day our earliest daughter completed kindergarten and have been all-in ever considering that."

After 4 years of hard work, the Duggers have developed a successful pasture-raised meat service. Looking for more methods to make a living off the land, this year they released 5 Ashley Retreats, where they host females at their hillside cattle ranch camp for a weekend of farm tasks and cooking classes.

There are no vacations or weekends off, however they invest a lot more time together as a household now, working together with one another. The Duggers don't have the conveniences, clean clothing or downtime they had in their previous life, and have actually needed to become more self-sufficient: "In the city, I could get anything done at the drop of a hat," states Ashley. "However in the country, I've needed to change my expectations. Everything moves a little more gradually, however surviving on a ranch indicates you can construct anything you can envision yourself, which is more rewarding than hiring somebody to do it."

Another payoff is seeing their ladies grow into courageous, diligent and independent free-range women. "My women' preferred motto is 'where there is a will, there's a way,' and all of us need to push difficult to make it all take place!" states Ashley. At the end of a long day, when the animals are fed, Ashley and Joe love to mix a mixed drink, put a 5 Ashley roast in the oven and rest on their front porch to view their children run complimentary in the yard.

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